Reflection

Why do we need a relationship?

Everyone needs a relationship. Is there anyone who doesn’t need a relationship? How is it like to have a life without any relationship? Probably lonely and so boring.

Why do we need a relationship? I think it is because we experience love through relationship. Everybody needs love. Everybody wants to be loved and also to love.

This need for love is probably the first need for each and every human soul. When this need is not fulfilled, the mind is restless, non-stop seeking and the heart is empty. And when this need is fulfilled, the mind stops searching and the heart is full.

How do you fulfill this desire? You probably also search through relationship with someone. Very often a relationship makes someone dependent on whom they have a relationship with. It is not liberating. It is an emotional attachment. When there is dependency, there is always a fear of losing. The desire for love is not fulfilled permanently.

There are 3 sources of love, from whom you can experience love. Firstly is from others and you know that it is not permanent. Secondly is from the self. This will not create dependency. It it fulfilling. It creates true self respect. It is more permanent. And thirdly is from God. It is very liberating. God’s love is liberating the soul, it doesn’t create any dependency.

You can make yourself full through experimenting the second and third sources of love.

What do you think how to experience this love from yourself and God practically in your life?

4 thoughts on “Why do we need a relationship?

  1. πŸ’Ž – Diamond Hard – πŸ’Ž

    πŸ’Ž I Have an Endless List of Dormant Friends, both sexual and non-sexual, EveryOne; it Taught Me that it’s Better To Be Miserable Alone but NOT!!! Lonely rather than Miserable in InCompatible Company EveryBody

    πŸ’Ž – Diamond Hard – πŸ’Ž

    …πŸ’ŽπŸ’ŽπŸ’Ž…

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